Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was ...

He said he loves only me, and he wants me to trust him again. My problem is, after all his secrecy, lies and defensiveness, I can’t do that.